We are private consultants between men and women in their relationships. We will help you to build a perfect first date with the girl you like. We will give you some relationship advice which can help you to avoid uncomfortable communication. You will receive ready-made routes of the labyrinths of unconventional female behavior. These will prevent you from vainly wasting your time. Your girl can find you interesting and desirable. You only need to make everything perfect and mutual sympathy will eventually grow into love which, if you want, will lead you to the Altar. And if your goal is to develop a serious long-term relationship in the future, then we will help you to understand how to behave on a first date so that your girlfriend will be looking forward to all of your future meetings.
Let’s assume that you’ve already met a woman. To get to know somebody on the Internet you just need to log in onto a social site or chat. Or you just met a girl on the street and got her phone number. An acquaintance can be a pretty delicate matter, and, if it’s a problem for you, we’ll give you some dating tips on how to meet a girl – without embarrassment – in another article. However, on the way of solving this problem you’ll come across another one equally important, – how to choose that special someone out of many contenders. The fact of your acquaintance and your meeting does not mean that a woman will behave the way you planned. She will be torn by the questions why you have chosen her over others; what you are really looking for; and whether you want a relationship or an adventure. If during the first date you show the absolute seriousness of your intentions, then, during the following date you’ll be pressed by her, if you don’t show up – she won’t remember your name next month. From the moment you make a date with a woman, you are under the starters gun. You should plan every step carefully trying to anticipate all her actions, only then your “first date” will go like clock-work and bright prospects for a relationship with this woman will be waiting for you.
The beginning, how to invite her, and what to do next? This is what we describe in our training video in detail, here and now we’ll give you some practical relationship advice.
On the first date your job is to seem interesting and desirable in her eyes. And this requires some work. You will need to make two steps. Step one – to draw the lady’s attention to your own person, step two – to approach her.
Prior to the forthcoming meeting you should carefully consider everything, make a clear action plan and be prepared for any surprises. Don’t let spontaneity destroy your plans. You should not make plans today, such as how to seduce a woman into bed on a first date. Remember, your goal on the first date is not sex, but the intention to get to know the girl you like. Determine what interests you have in common. Possible topics of conversation? Remember – women love to listen a lot, so, during the date communicate very enthusiastically, without looking at others. You shouldn’t be too pushy if your interest is not sincere, and rudeness is also unacceptable. To imbue her with positive emotions – be attentive to her. In this new technology century the Internet will become your faithful companion. It has new items, which she doesn’t know yet, and the more you know about your common hobbies, the more interesting she will find you. The first date should not be associated with stress. Don’t be afraid of anything, don’t be nervous. Display only confidence, you shouldn’t have even a hint of shyness to avoid creating a feeling of awkwardness. Don’t try to move heaven and earth to make a first impression. Always keep in mind that you should become on this date neither a “center of the universe”, attracting worldwide attention, nor “free ears” to listen to her babbling during the whole date. Too much information is also very bad. Remember that the woman’s brain is like a computer with an old single-core processor rather than four cores and eight gigabytes which you have. Tell her about yourself if she shows interest but don’t dwell on the whole story of your life. And by no means don’t tell her about your Ex’s, she’ll immediately begin to compare herself with them, and thus may decide that you are unworthy of her. Don’t brag of your success in front of her, and don’t complain about failure. Don’t bend her ear about your own problems. Have a positive mood, a thirty-two teeth smile and a note of humor which will make you exactly that positive character who she wanted so much to meet.
Be prepared for any surprises, and if she asks unexpected questions, which you aren’t ready to answer – don’t lie! Smile and say that you appreciate her sincere interest in your personality, give her a compliment and turn the conversation away from you to avoid discomfort. Be yourself – it’s important. We play roles in front of unknown people very often, presenting ourselves, as it seems, from our best side. This is a deception. It will certainly be exposed, and you will find yourself at a disadvantage which you’ll need to wriggle out of. First, you undermine your credibility; second, you can forget about a long-term relationship. Just be honest.
Where to spend time on the first date? The place itself should facilitate a date, it should be comfortable and you should feel at ease there. Dress code depends on the intended location, and a business suit is not suitable for horse riding.
In order to approach a female you need to identify common interests and hobbies, generally, all those things that bring you both positive and happy feelings. As soon as you feel the firm ground of common interest, the only thing you’ll have to do is to turn up the heat.
And remember that the girls are eventually won over a long period by those who have made many mistakes at the beginning. Avoid making those mistakes!
Make everything right and a positive result is guaranteed for you.
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